mrinalika dujari
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What if, the next time we rushed to judge, we paused long enough to consider that maybe, just maybe we don’t see the whole story? It happened on an ordinary afternoon. Nothing dramatic, nothing worth remembering on most days. I was in a cab, watching the city pass by in its usual mix of chaos and rhythm. And then, the car slowed. A street dog lay injured on the side of the road, hit by a speeding vehicle whose driver had already disappeared into the traffic. Without a word, my cab driver stopped the car and stepped out. There was no dramatic moment, no hesitation, no need for instruction. Just a quiet urgency in his movements. He knelt beside the dog, gently checking if it was still breathing. For a while, neither of us spoke. The city continued moving around us horns, footsteps, and conversations, while we stood in this small pocket of stillness, acknowledging a life that most people had driven past without a second thought. Eventually, we had to leave. There were no photos taken, no comments made, no need for validation. Just a silent act of compassion folded into the fabric of an ordinary day. Fifteen minutes later, everything shifted. A motorcyclist suddenly swerved in front of our cab, braking hard enough to jolt us both. Before we understood what was happening, he stormed toward the car, anger written across every step. Without asking a single question, he pointed at my driver and accused him of hitting the dog and fleeing. His voice rose. His certainty rose with it. The air around us tightened. For a brief moment, it felt like kindness was being buried under the weight of a story the biker had invented : a story that made sense to him because it was quick, simple, and required no effort to verify. I stepped out of the car. I explained what had actually happened slowly, calmly, without adding heat to the situation. I described the driver’s quiet act of care, the way he had stayed with the dog, the fact that we were simply passing by the spot again on our route. Something in the biker’s expression softened. He processed what I was saying and really processed it. Then he exhaled. “I’m sorry,” he said. “I didn’t know.”And he left as quickly as he had appeared. But his apology wasn’t what stayed with me. What stayed was the ease with which he, like all of us, at some point fell into the trap of assumption. As the cab resumed its journey, I kept thinking about how effortlessly we create stories in our heads. How we fill the gaps with whatever explanation feels most convenient. How quickly we move from uncertainty to judgment simply because certainty feels more comfortable than doubt. This incident wasn’t just about one man misunderstanding a situation. It was a mirror reflecting something universal. In life, in relationships, in careers, and even in how we judge ourselves — we often operate with incomplete information. We assume intentions. We assign blame. We interpret silence. We react to fragments. And we call it the truth. But the truth isn’t always loud. Sometimes it speaks softly. Sometimes it hides beneath the surface. Sometimes it needs someone patient enough to ask questions instead of rushing to conclusions. And sometimes, truth needs a witness, someone willing to say, “Wait. There’s more you don’t see.” That day reminded me how character is revealed not in how quickly we judge, but in how willing we are to pause. To listen. To understand that what feels obvious is often just the beginning of a much larger story.’ So the next time we feel ourselves reaching for certainty whether it’s about a stranger, a loved one, or even our own choices let’s take a breath and ask: Do I really know the whole story? Because most of the time, what we see is only the surface. And it’s beneath that surface in the quiet, the unseen, the unexplained — where the real truth lives.







